About Pleasurelit Patricia

About Pleasurelit

Tantric Somatic Embodiment for Women

You know how you can be highly functional — running a business, caring for others, leading, holding everything together — and on the outside, things might work…
but inside, you feel tense, disconnected, on autopilot, or constantly on?

I'm Patricia, a mother, DV survivor, solopreneur and founder of Pleasurelit®.

Pleasurelit® is a tantric somatic embodiment approach that supports women to expand their capacity for pleasure, so they live, lead, and relate from within their body, without paying for it with burnout, disconnection, or self-betrayal.

My work is grounded in trauma-informed somatics, nervous system regulation, breath, movement, tantra, sexuality, holistic health, and embodied leadership, so pleasure becomes lit from within the body, and not something reserved for rest, intimacy, or escape.

This is the Pleasurelit Way.

My successfully completed qualifications and real hands-on experiences, exploration, self-study and self-development:

• Somatic Sex Coach

• Tantra Practitioner & Sacred Sexuality Coach

• Trauma-Informed Coach

• Breathwork Facilitator

• Meditation Teacher

• Yoga Teacher (350hr)

• Kink, BDSM & Professional Dominatrix

• Pleasure Product Reviewer

• Reiki Master

• Enrolled & Registered Nurse

• Recognise & Respond Appropriately to Domestic Violence

• Work, Health, Safety & Return to Work

• Quality & Control Management

• Infection Prevention & Control Leader

• Personal Trainer & Fitness Master Trainer

• Nutrition Coach

• Sensual Dance Teacher

• Educational Trainer & Assessor

• Business Management

• Bank Assistance Manager

Patricia's Qualifications

My mission is to reshare how we relate to pleasure, as a regulated, embodied experience, rather than something to chase, perform, or outsource. I create spaces and education where people can meet themselves honestly, safely, and without shame. Pleasurelit exists to help people feel safe enough in their body to experience what they truly desire.

Pleasurelit® offers education, embodied practices, and relational spaces for personal growth and integration. I am committed to trauma-informed, consent-based, inclusive practice. This work is not therapy, medical treatment, or a substitute for professional mental health or medical care. I work within clear ethical boundaries and encourage clients to seek additional professional support when needed. You remain responsible for your own choices, pacing, and wellbeing within this work. I acknowledge my own privilege and continue to learn, unlearn, and refine how I hold space and educate. I refer out when something is not within my scope and prioritise ethical, responsible support over attachment to being the answer.

Pleasurelit is for people who carry responsibility and are willing to meet themselves honestly. People who value depth, discernment, and integration. Those who want pleasure to support their life, work, and relationships rather than distract from them. This work is not for people looking for quick fixes, peak experiences, sexual instruction without context, or bypassing personal responsibility. It is not about performance or outsourcing power.

Pleasurelit® stands for body autonomy, nervous system safety, education, and embodied self-responsibility. This work honours difference, complexity, and lived experience.

Patricia's Mission

Embodied Education
Pleasurelit blends science, healthcare literacy, trauma-informed practice, and lived embodied experience. Education is designed to be felt, practiced, and integrated into real life, business, and relationships.

Regulated Pleasure
Pleasure is approached through nervous system capacity, pacing, consent, and safety. Expansion and depth without the expense of the body.

Integration Into Life
Pleasurelit is not a separate world. It lives in motherhood, money, leadership, visibility, intimacy, and daily choices. It is not just the experience itself, but also what stays in the body afterwards.

Brand Pillars

Embodied Autonomy
The body is the authority. Choice, boundaries, pacing, and self-responsibility are central. Pleasure is not performed, outsourced, or extracted. It is felt, owned, and integrated.

Nervous System Integrity
Pleasure must be sustainable. This work prioritises regulation, consent, and capacity so expansion does not come at the cost of safety, health, or stability.

Integrity Over Performance
Depth matters more than display. This brand does not chase shock, trends, or external validation. Alignment, honesty, and discernment guide every decision.

Pleasure as Capacity
Pleasure is a stabilising resource that increases resilience, intimacy, creativity, and the ability to hold responsibility, money, love and pleasure.

Ethical Relational Power
Power, influence, and intimacy are held consciously. This work is trauma-informed, scope-aware, referral-capable, and grounded in responsibility rather than projection.

Core Values